I am really glad that Bryan is close to my mother. Now that I am taking care of Dylan, I can no longer accompany Bryan to sleep. So my mother is now taking over the role.
The first night Dylan comes home, I continued to tuck Bryan to bed and run to his room each time he cries. I have almost no sleep that night – between feeding and caring for Dylan at night and attending to Bryan at the same time.
Most probably that it is due to Bryan’s anxiety, he woke up many times that night, crying for me. I feel so wrecked by the next morning. Hubb also had no sleep as he have to help take care of Dylan as well and calm Dylan down when I am with Bryan. I felt like I was compromising Dylan. I am not favoring Dylan over Bryan, but Dylan is a newborn baby. He needs my full attention. And as I am exclusively bfg him, no one else can help me with feeding as I still do not have any milk storage.
So the 2nd night onwards, I asked my mom to accompany Bryan, and everyone could get a bit more rest.
Thanks a lot mother! I don’t know how I would manage this without you.
Phew! Luckily he’s willing to sleep with Popo. Belle only wants to sleep with either Jon or me…that’s why we’re sleeping separate room now. We’re worse than divorced couples..hehe…
Ya, it’s good to have someone take over. I’ve started training Sze Yi to sleep with MIL too, and now even hubby can put her to sleep too.
I’m also worried about how to tackle this later as currently Bryan sleeps with me.