Dylan’s Full Moon

Time really flies. Dylan will be 1 month old in another 2 days time. But we decided to celebrate a little earlier, weekend mah…easier to coordinate.Hubb fetched MIL along when he deliver the full moon sets to her house in the morning. I stayed at home and while he was gone, gave Dylan a nice bath and then change him to a new suit that my parents had bought him.

During Bryan’s full moon, we shaved his head bald. Bryan had patchy hair at birth and thus hubb decided to shave it all away to even things out. Bryan actually looked way cuter with a bald head than with the patchy hair style.

With Dylan, we think he has gorgeous hair, and therefore no need to shave. So what hubb was just to ceremoniously cut a small bit of hair off.

Then the ceremony to shave his eyebrows.

It was believed that if you shaved the hair during full moon, the baby will have thicker hair. Although I don’t believe in these superstition, there is no harm to do things just for the ceremony. Besides, I don’t mind my son being more good looking *chuckle.* Anyway, it makes the elders happier…

Then it is the prayers time.

And big kor-kor Bryan wants to pray as well.

Finally mommy gets to be in the photo. (mommy was busy snapping photos earlier)

And Daddy too…(Dylan even “smiled” in this photo)

And for the grand finale…our first family photo.

Happy full moon Dylan. May you grow up big, strong, healthy and happy!

Big baby

With a new baby in the house, Bryan decided he wants to be a baby too.

Bryan never like the bouncer when he was a baby. But when we took out the old bouncer for Dylan,  needless to say, big bro decided that he wants it and it was a lot of fun bouncing around in it. When we put Dylan in it, Bryan wants to bounce it too, real hard. So the only time Dylan gets to laze around in it is when Bryan is in ZZZ land.

I just know now that I will have the same problem with the stroller soon. And Bryan never like the stroller last time too…

Mittens & Booties?

If you had paid close attention to Dylan’s photos, you would realize that he does not wear mittens. And I can tell you that he don’t wear booties or socks neither.

Some of the most annoying comments I get when I take Dylan out are:

1) Aiyo, why didn’t you let your baby wear mittens/ socks? He looks so cold la…

2) Why didn’t you wrap your son in thick blanket? He looks cold la

Bla bla bla…my son is cold? In our hot tropical climate?

I know that many will disagree with me but I do not think that we should let our babies wear mittens and booties unless of course they are in a cold environment.

I have not come across any childcare articles that suggests that newborns MUST wear mittens & booties/ socks. Yeah, if it is winter, it makes sense. But not here. I do let my son wear socks when he is older and if he sleeps in an air con room.

But Dylan enjoys being swaddled tightly when he is asleep. So his feet will be kept warm in the swaddle. No need for socks.

As for mittens, whatever for? Yeah, some people will say that it is to keep the baby from scratching and hurting himself. Well, they won’t hurt themselves if you keep their nails short.

I check Dylan’s nails regularly and cut them minimum twice a week. During Bryan’s time, I even file them to make sure that there are no sharp edges. With Dylan, no time to file but I will feel all the nails to make sure that there are no sharp edges. And so far, since I took him home, he has never scratched himself till there is a cut.

And when Bryan was a newborn, a PD told me that it is best NOT to let the baby wear mittens. Wearing mittens prevents the baby from touching and feeling things with his fingers. In summary, wearing mittens actually interfere with the baby’s learning process.

His advice works well for me. Less laundry for me…hehe. Besides, how can he suck on his fingers if he is wearing mittens. All you get in the end is a yucky mitten…

Anyway, since I am getting so many of these comments again, just for curiosity and to make sure that I am not doing anything wrong. I asked his current PD if Dylan should be in mittens & booties/ socks. Her reply? She never put her kids in mittens & booties either..

Dylan’s photos

Last week have been a hectic week for me. Regular visits to the PD, and caring for a cranky baby just takes all my time.

Now that things are a little more settled…here’s the mandatory blogging mother’s role – Photo time!!!


I’m a much bigger boy now…

 


Dylan and his cute little mouth pose

 


Sucking finger fun time

 


Yummy yummy finger

Compared to Bryan’s time. There were indeed less photos. Not that I don’t want to but sometimes we forget. Bryan drives us crazy most of the time. And when he is around, we have to watch him like a hawk as he could “attack” Dylan anytime. Yeah, things are getting better but it is still far far away from where we want to be – when we dare to leave Bryan alone with Dylan.

The silver lining

Although Dylan was discharged fr the hospital after 2 days of phototheraphy, he continued to have jaundice and I had to bring him in to the hospital every other day or so for checkup. His bilirubin level remained at around 17o++.

Eventhough the level was not alarmingly high (>250, have to be admitted), his PD decided to do a urine bag teston day 10. The test came back +ve for urine infection with heavy growth of E Coli bacteria in the urine.

There was a possibility of contamination in the urine as it was a bag test. So PD repeated the test by obtaining a catheter urine sample. Same results. So it seemed that the urinary infection was the cause of his prolonged jaundice.

He was put on antibiotics immediately – Augmentine – 1ml 3x a day. 1.5 days after he started the antibiotics, my good baby became a cranky baby. His 3-4 hour sleep schedule was gone, and I had a baby who wants to be held constantly, and of course fed constantly. I called PD, and PD says it could be due to wind in the tummy as the antibiotics will kill both the good & bad bacteria. She prescribed colic drops but it did not help at all. So she concluded that he may not be feeling well due to the infection. I was asked to breastfeed as much as possible, as my breastmilk could possibly be the main reason why he was doing so well even with his infection. And bf him i did, constantly…

I was asked to monitor his temperature to make sure his condition do not become worse. Luckily it did not.

Day 15: I brought him for another urine test and the test showed greatly improved results. Bacteria presence have decreased tremendously. But PD was still concerned about the presence of white blood cells in his urine – a sign that the infection is not fully gone yet.

I was asked to continue the antibiotics and we took Dylan in for another round of checkup yesterday. The tests came back this morning that he is fully cleared from the infection.

Initially, I was so shocked to learned that he had urinary infection as there was no symptoms at all. He was feeding well, sleeping well. Gaining weight as he should. No fever. He appeared like any other healthy baby.

PD was surprised too. As considering his level of infection, most infants would have developed high fever, would be restless, refuse to feed..etc etc. But the fact that he seemed well is a very good sign. It is a sign that the infection has not spread to the blood and that we were lucky that it was detected early. We had an ultrasound done as well to make sure that his kidneys were not infected, and we were glad to know that everything is well.

Urine infection in newborns if not treated promptly could easily spread to the bloodstream and from there it could infect the kidney and cause scarring. Kidney scarring could lead to permanent kidney damage and other complications such as high blood pressure in the future.

I asked the PD if Dylan’s infection was due to poor hygiene – something that I did not do right. PD assured me that it has nothing to do with hygiene. And there was nothing that I could have done to prevent it.

What’s next? We had to keep him on preventive medicine for the next 6 weeks to make sure that the infection do not come back. He has to be given trimethoprim once a day and he is scheduled for another kidney and bladder ultrasound in 6 weeks time. This is to check to see if he has Vesicoureteral Reflux. If he has none, that’s the end of the story. But if he has, it’s gonna be another loooong story. We are crossing our fingers that all will turn out well in the scan in 6 weeks time.

I am just glad that things are ok for now, and are counting my blessings that the infection was detected and treated promptly.

This shows that newborn jaundice is not something that one should take lightly. During one of my visits to the PD, I met a mother who recommended me to a Chinese physician for jaundice. I smiled and thanked the mother but I will never consider traditional medicine for my newborn baby. You never know what the Chinese physician is giving the child and I have read too many horror stories about these treatment.

So, always seek professional treatment for your child.

Bryan loves Di Di

It has been slightly over a week that Dylan is home with us. And things are certainly getting better with Bryan and Dylan..

We still do not let Bryan into the room where Dylan sleep because of fear that Bryan will disturb him. But whenever Dylan is awake and alert, we will take him out to the living room for him to socialize with the rest of the family members.

Bryan is usually very excited when we take Dylan out from his room.

 Hi Didi

 

 

 Koko loves you Didi…

 

Say Cheese…..

I posted not long ago that it was almost impossible to take Bryan’s photo. Now it is getting a bit better…Why? Because the vain little boy loves seeing his photo in the camera.

This afternoon, he was throwing a tantrum in the living room.

But when he noticed hubb holding a camera…check out the cute poses…

Good baby Dylan

Dylan is definitely a better and easier baby than Bryan. He nurses every 3 – 4 hour and sleeps most of the time. That is why I get to blog! And I am really thankful that he is a good baby as I cannot imagine having a difficult baby and Bryan at the same time.

Even as a newborn Bryan was a handful. He rarely nap for more than 30 mins by himself. He needed to be held all the time or he would cry and cry. He would bf for more than 1 hour and yet not be happy (cry sommo la).

Now as a toddler, he is a nightmare to us! Among my friends, I think Bryan is the winner for being the most handful toddler!

We are now all counting on Dylan to be different.

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