All About Bryan and Dylan

Bryan & Dylan - Things will get better….that’s what people are telling me.

And I know it is, a little bit at a time.

I still keep myself behind locked doors when I need to focus attention to Dylan - feeding, bathing or changing him. But there were several occasions when Dylan is awake and alert and I brought him out to play, Bryan was OK with me holding him.

The problem is, he wants to cuddle as well, and he can be quite rough on Dylan. He would pat Dylan’s head, or rub his face/ head against Dylan - sometimes a little too hard.

But at least he is starting to accept the fact that I will hold Dylan. But it is still a long way from where I want him to be.

He is still exceptionally clingy to me and would cry whenever I am out of sight. Last night, my mom could not tuck him to bed. He wanted only mommy and cried till vomit. In the end, i had to tuck him to bed, after I had fed and tuck Dylan to bed.

Hubb is also trying to get more involved in Bryan. He still cannot tuck him to bed but at least he is helping to prepare Bryan for bed. He will help to brush Bryan’s teeth and make sure that everything is OK before leaving the room. Actually Bryan will ask him to leave the room once everything is in place - Aircon switched on, Star night light turned on,..etc

I told hubb to take Bryan kai-kai in the weekends too, but that is a impossible for now. Hubb will be busy at our old apt to clear the remaining things in the next few weekends. We are targeting to handover the apt to the new owner by end Mar.

But the main problem is - Bryan is being very difficult in the car recently. Will share more in the next post, as i can hear Dylan now and i need my sleep too……